Guys just don’t mess up while you talk to a girl, especially for the first time, if you mess up things are highly possible that she might not be interested in an another conversation with you, so it becomes vital that you should know how to talk to a girl in the first place, there are certain things that you must do and also there are things which you might definitely avoid while talk to her otherwise you might scare her away and things ends there abruptly. So just read on to know more.
Don’t straight away talk to her in a way that will abruptly let her know that you are fancying her, I remember my own brother doing this to a girl whom he liked very much in the first place and when there was a situation where he was able to talk to that girl directly, he messed things up, he started to get all excited in front of her and started to ask her something stupid like “can we be friends?” “what you think about me?” guys just don’t ever ask a girl straight questions like this and I know you might be little excited to talk to a girl sometimes but if you ask her these kind of questions when you talk to her for the first time you are sending out a very strong signal that you are admiring her and many girls feel totally uncomfortable with that, they don’t know you yet and you are talking to her for the first time and you are already asking her stupid questions, you are literally chasing away the girl with these type of conversations so just avoid it.
Don’t ask for a date in the very first conversation, well unless you are like the most handsome guy in town and girls will fall head on for you when talk to her in the first place, just don’t ever ask for a date in the first conversation, the point I am trying to make is, when you talk to a girl just don’t straight away give out the signal that you are admiring her, when you do that you will potentially boost that girl’s ego and also you are increasing the probability of her trashing you for future conversation.
So how you should talk to a girl?
Be casual and confident when you talk to her.
Look in to her eyes while you are talking to her, eye contacts can mean a lot to give out subtle signals to her and girls respond quite well for eye contacts.
Smile at her, smiling is important reason is girls like guys who smile a lot and no wonder most guys look cute when they smile, so just make sure to smile at her and there is probably a high chance that she might like your smile.
Let her talk, don’t be a big mouth all the time and keep talking to her, give her some chance to talk too, that way you will not make her feel bored about the whole conversation.
Listen to her, when she tells you something like her opinion on something just make sure not to degrade her opinion, instead give more importance to her opinion and possibly praise her that way she will know that you are talking her opinions in to consideration and she will not hesitate to further continue the conversation with you.
Not to mention be funny and make jokes but don’t straight away make jokes on her, she may not like it that way but general rule sticks, be funny and crack some jokes that will not hurt her.
If you happen to like her and want to date her in future then just don’t too many breaks for future conversation, get her mobile number if possible and try to keep in touch with her and again don’t show off that you are in desperate need to go out or move with her.
So now you know how you can start about to talk to a girl, why not give it a try and if you think you liked the tips just leave your comments and also your ideas so that others might benefit from you.
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nice I really liked the tips..
Thank you so much.