How To Make A Guy Fall In Love – Effective ways

Just because a guy talks to you in a friendly way doesn’t conclude the fact that he loves, in fact its really hard to find a guy who really falls in love, frankly many guys just move with girls for the fun they get. To make a guy fall in love with you takes a little effort.

Not all men just fall in love with a girl at first sight, in fact it only happens in a very few occasions that a guy falls in love with a girl at first sight and that too its doubtful that he will feel the same for a girl after few occasions. Reason I am mentioning this about a guy is that you should know how a guy functions basically, unless you know that fact it will be a hard task for you.

Guys use their heads a lot, though on some occasions they fall from their heads to heart, but unlike girls, guys functions through their heads, they are more mathematical most of the time, more calculative on what they should do and what they shouldn’t. The reason they cannot come to a conclusion is due to that, mind never comes to a conclusion and hence they cannot come to a conclusion that easily with regards to love to, though mind has nothing to do with love but still since their minds play a major role in their life, there is a difficulty.

So if you approach a guy with whom you have some interest, don’t straight away move to him and tell him that you love him and ask him to love you, it just don’t work that way. He will not fall in love with you that way and its bound to be a failure that way.

So how you should start?

To begin with start with friendship. Friendship is the best way to move with guys initially. Why? reason is simple you cannot move with a guy otherwise straight away so start with friendship so that you get the chance to move with the guy.

Get To Know before You Decide:
One of the advantages friendship holds is very vital before planning for a actual relationship with a guy, Advantage is you get to know about the person, now you can know whether you can move with him or not. So before you get started decide as it may become one of the vital decision for the rest of you life.

Care For Him:
So you decided to move on with him? ok good decision lol.. so whats the next step, care for him, its important that you need to care for him, why? for a guy when someone cares for him, it means more than anything for him, guys always have this feeling, well in fact almost everyone has this feeling that no one cares about them, so when you show signs of caring it places you in a higher position in his head, why head possibly in heart, lets be more optimistic, so when you care you get a place in his heart.

How can you show that you care?

Its important while you move in friendship with him, you move a little close with him to know about his secrets, personal problems, best way to start that is, you can start sharing your secrets with him at first, when you start to share things with him, its natural tendency for anyone that they will also start to share their secrets and personal issues with you.

So when this happens he starts to feel more comfortable with you and start sharing things with you that hurts him a lot, and talks to you because he knows that you will listen to him, listening to a guy means a lot. So just listen to him sincerely to his problems and give honest opinions on the issues. That will show him that you care for him, no matter what ever issues he brings to you, listen to him and respond sincerely to them.

Look Good:

Looking good may not be that important once you have place in a guy’s heart, but still lets be in a safer side, in case if his minds tells him to look for a better chick who looks better, so lets avoid possible danger, guys are crazy you need to be little careful with them. Looking good I don’t mean you put on your beauty creams all over your body and make yourself feel greasy and slippery when someone touches you, not really. Look at your best, choose cloths which exposes you best assets that’s what is more important. There is nothing wrong in looking good, it gives you more confidence so looking good is really good.

I know you might have come across people saying all BS, on the whole issue of making a guy fall in love, be funny, have humor, smile at him and in fact I myself wrote some tips on them in many of my articles but frankly they wont work on a long term, guys can have fun with anyone, if they don’t find anyone they always have video games, internet at their disposal so when you want to make a guy really fall you need to make your move more intimately.

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