Before we proceed this article is not for people who are happy with the fact that they don’t find any problems with masturbating, this article is purely for people who feel bad about it or those who want to stop it during a course of time.
I have read articles on the same topic on other sites and blogs but I am not happy with the solution they provide for the issue, because the solution they provide with is not a solution at all. There are two ways to deal with any problems, one way is diversion and the other way is understanding which won’t provide you with the solution for the problem but instead understanding will dissolve the problem.
What are the solution I see online for the issue is not really a solution but just a diversion, so this basic understanding is necessary. So we will try to understand the problem instead of forcing our mind to divert itself because diversion only creates more trouble to the issue, you might in fact start to masturbate more if you try to divert your mind out of it, the more you try the more intensely it will come at you, so just don’t try to divert or ignore yourself from the issue.
Sex Is A Part Of You:
You need to know that whether you like it or you don’t like it fact is that sex is a part of you and me of course, we are born out of sex, we are created out of sex, like Osho used to tell that our mother and father were not praying while creating us, they were in fact having sex.
Just like your hands and legs are part of you and fighting your one hand with the other is useless, its useless to fight with sex too. Because you are never going to succeed by fighting with it, how can you succeed by fighting with yourself? its not going to happen you will only end up hurting yourself.
So the first thing to know is that its not an issue at all, just don’t have the idea that its wrong, if you feel guilty that you are masturbating then drop that guilt, what’s really creating the problem is the feeling of guilt.
Am I asking you to Continue Doing It?
Well in fact yes, but not like before, I want you to continue doing it but be aware that you are masturbating, perhaps see yourself in a mirror if possible while doing it, just look in to you, just be focused on what you are doing, don’t think about anything else, just be aware that you are masturbating.
Meditate up on what you were doing after you have just had an ejaculation, you will come to a point where you will start to feel its ridiculous, slowly try to be more aware while you are in the process of doing it, next step will be to meditate on it while you are about to burst up and start masturbation, just be watchful look at the feeling as it appears and reaches the peak and also as it slowly starts to move down the hill. Once you reach this state you will be immensely happy that you have understood the problem and once you understand the problem then you don’t have to find a solution because problem will dissolve itself out of understanding.
Let me put this very clear for you, there are no solution out there for any problem, all that is really needed is understanding once there is understanding then there is no problem. That’s why all the saints and religious leaders all over the world want to throw more light on real life issues, because once there is light darkness disappears.
To Make the process more easy I would suggest you to do Osho dynamic mediation on a daily basis for at least 30 to 48 days.
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cancer is a real problem. meditating on it wont help. stop wasting your life on these things man.
the only reason people feel guilt about masturbating is because of religion. drop religion, drop the guilt. in fact if you drop religion you will drop most guilt.